Welcome to the first installment of my 5 part series on ‘How to Dress Your Age’. One of my loveliest readers asked me to do a post on how to dress well in your 40’s and I thought why not do one for all decades? I’m starting with the 20’s because I am antagonistic and like to make people wait for the things they want. Mwah ha ha!
Firstly for those of us on the lower side of 30 there are a few things you need to admit before we can get started.
* Your body, hair and skin are still pretty damn good despite the occasional problem area.
* You aren’t 15 anymore.
* You don’t have the budget of Posh Beckham.
* You are still dressing for men.
* You don’t have a particular definable style.
My advice for dressing in your 20’s is to experiment like a mofo. Wear as many different styles as you can manage and try out different cuts. This is the time of your life when you should really start paying to attention to what cuts and tailoring work for your figure. Obviously your weight will fluctuate through out the years (hell, my weight fluctuates weekly!) but if you are within your healthy weight range (and it’s highly likely that you are at the age of 20) what your body looks like now is it’s natural shape. If you gain weight it will still be that shape but bigger. If you lose weight it will be that shape but smaller. I suggest joining wardrobe_remix and submitting your outfits everyday even if you don’t think they are that interesting. I have learnt SO MUCH about what is flattering on me from doing this it’s unbelievable. I look good in tops that expose my shoulders like strapless and halter. I look rubbish in roll necks and short skirts make my legs look dumpy and stumpy next to my dashund-esque super long torso. Trust me the flickr wardrobe_remix is GOLD! You also have a full catalogue of all your clothes and outfits on hand for days when you have no idea what to wear. It’s a win win situation.
Seriously though wear whatever you like. And by that I mean whatever YOU like. Not what ever some hollywood, fish-lipped clone with twigs for arms likes. Or what her stylist likes. You get the picture. Here are a few tips to keep on track…
* Stop beating yourself up– So your bum is a little on the flabby side. You have tuckshop lady arms. Your thighs are made of jelly. Guess what? Nobody cares! Guess what else? It’s only going to get worse. Harsh but true. What you need to do is realise that you are in your physical prime! Play up your good bits like your tits or your killer shoulders. Got great legs? Show em off! Conceal your jiggly bits and flash your crowd pleasers… it’s your time to shine baby.
* Don’t flash your below-the-belt-bits – There is nothing worse a than a 20 something beauty wearing a minge-flashing mini because she has killer legs. Your legs are still going to be killer if you cover your fanny. Just adding a couple of extra inches can make a mini classy as opposed to trashy. Think Halle Berry not Paris Hilton.
* Don’t overspend on clothes – There is no need to spend every spare cent on clothes. There are always cheaper options available and I promise that no one will notice where you buy your clothes if you wear them well and hold yourself like a queen.
* Stop dressing for the man you hope to meet – How many times have you put on a fabulous hat or some funky gloves and thought ‘No guy will ask me out while I am wearing this’ and then taken it off before you leave the house? Come on we’ve all done it. And how many times have you spent hours doing your hair into a fabulous 60’s beehive only to have your average pony tailed friend get picked up by the hottest guy there? I used to dress for guys and then I turned 20 and thought how incredibly stupid that is. Essentially you want a man you wants you for you. And if you managed to attract a guy by dressing like a slut when you really have the heart of a librarian you’ve just made yourself a match in hell. I’m a really weird dresser. I do hats and strange jewellery and weird hairpieces and false eyelashes. On my first date with Mr Smaggle I wore a skirt as a dress with a string of pearls in my hair. I dressed the way I wanted to dress and snagged the most perfect man in the world for me. And he thinks my style is tops. Just be patient. Keep dressing the way you want and your Mr Perfect will come along… don’t change your look for someone less than princely.
* Don’t obsess over your style– There is no shame in dressing like Sporty Spice one minute and Posh Spice the next. You’re young and free and foolish. Make as many fashion mistakes and triumphs as you can. It’s spectacular to dress with reckless abandon… and don’t apologise for it.
20’s Work Wear
Because you’re young and cute you can get away with being a little cheeky in the work place. Try mixing unusual colours and shapes to make the most of your youthful figure and complexion. Be a little bit naughty as well… if you’re going to push the dress code now is the time to do it.
20’s Evening Wear
Bling it up baby and wear the most ridiculous shoes you can imagine. Dress for yourself and wear as much sparkle as you want. Keep it classy though. Just remember – the higher the hem line the higher the neckline…
Be flirty and fun and don’t take yourself seriously. Wear a summer dress with a leather jacket. Or tailored pants with army boots. Add a scarf and a couple of quirky accessories. Be spontaneous. I know I sound like a Sportsgirl add but I’m not trying to sell you anything so you have to believe me… The most important thing to remember in your 20’s is to do what you want to do. And avoid looking trashy.
Have a fabulous weekend my 20-somethings and I’ll see you 30-somethings next week for some fashion tips for your era!
Have happy days…
Love Lady Smaggle